Due to reasons beyond my control, I recently found myself standing in a large make-up department in need of an eyeshadow in a specific shade.
A nearby counter displayed a massive collection of colors – a suitable place to start.
A few moments later, a voice said, 'May I show you our selections?'
I looked up with a smile as the saleslady continued 'All of our eyeshadows are really safe - they're 100% paraben-free'.
My smile faded...
The Devil Made Me Do itI really wasn't up for it, but this person had just pushed the wrongest button on the planet. A little antagonistic devil popped up out of nowhere and I heard myself reply:
'Actually, I have allergies, so I can only tolerate make-up with parabens. Is there a brand in this department that has parabens?'
'Uhmmm, hmmmmm...' came the flustered reply. 'Why don't you ask over there?' Her hand waved in a non-specific direction that encompassed the entire floor.
My husband, who was accompanying me, steered me away. For the record: he doesn't enjoy being in make-up departments. He only offers to accompany me so he can protect salespeople who dish out thumbsuck about cosmetics ingredients from my spontaneous lectures.
He's thoughtful that way.
Unfortunately, my antagonistic devil had taken hold, so I was now on a self-appointed quest for make-up containing parabens.
Angel in DisguiseThe next friendly face who greeted us asked me to repeat, then took me completely by surprise by answering,
'It's certainly not very often we have people asking for parabens. They are, after all, the safest preservatives, but these scare campaigns have caused a lot of companies to change the preservatives they use. Let's have a look around and see if we can find something for you. Which color are are you looking for?'
I fell in love. Right then and there.
What a delight to meet an informed salesperson!
I told her so too. I complimented her on her knowledge and not being afraid to offer it as I followed her around the department from one brand to the next, checking ingredients lists and considering color choices.
I told her she was a ray of sunshine - a breath of fresh air - an angel.
I don't think she was used to that much praise. Her smile just kept getting bigger and warmer and brighter - kind of like that fabulous looking smile you see above.
By the time we left, she was all giggly.
There was an unexpected little bonus outcome from this trip to the store.
The Unexpected Bonus
My husband, who was all smiles until he saw the pricetag on the eyeshadow - offered an insightful comment.
I'm sure he had mentally tallied up the numerous products on my make-up table before saying, 'No wonder you make all your own make-up. I thought it was just because you like playing around with pigments and powders'.
Well, yes, that too.
Below: here's what I came home with: a duo-shadow by Elizabeth Arden called 'Black tie'. I've placed it next to a cream-based version of the color I was looking for. It's obviously not spot-on, but it'll do – for now.
My work-around: layer of the cream as a base. Thin layer of the powder eyeshadow on top.
The black is being tested both as a liner and on my eyebrows. So far, no itching and no irritation.
PS: The ingredients list did not include parabens, but did contain ingredients I could tolerate without problem.
Before ThisHere's the eyeshadow emergency that led to this post.
Parabens - an overview